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How to talk about it

How to adress the subject?

  • Share openly and honestly your worries and how you feel.
  • Speek from your own perspective: « I have observed that...», «I worry about...». This can help to avoid tension
  • Avoid accusations as: «You are always distant...»/ «You have wasted all your money!»

What not to do?

  • Don't lend money
  • Don't lie for the player, for example calling in sick at work for him or her
  • Don't threaten consequences, which you can't or won't pull through, for example threatening to leave

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